Hey there! So...I really don't know who is actually good at this online dating stuff...but I'm going to be as real as is humanly possible via the internet. I am a down to earth, hard-working kind of guy. I am not super excited to be back in the dating world...I extremely dislike the mind games, and all of the guessing games that seem to accompany dating. Don't get me wrong I thoroughly enjoy meeting new people...and I understand we are all trying to protect ourselves from getting hurt, but honestly if you aren't willing to open yourself up and let someone get to know you...you're kind of wasting the time of everyone involved, including yourself.
That said, I'm going to lay it out here...I am the father of two beautiful children who are my world! As such, I will be extremely selective about who I will introduce and share them with. As a single father I really don't have the time to mess with the drama of regular dating...so if you're the type of girl/woman who thrives on drama and "the chase"...please don't waste my time or yours.
So as far as dating goes here's what you can expect from me...if I find that I like you after a date, I will not wait 3 days (or however long the waiting period is these days) before I call or text you. I will probably text you the very next morning asking how you slept. I've never been good at being a jerk, or the "bad boy" so if that is what you're into, then again please lets not waste each other's time.
I am looking for an amazing woman that is not selfish, and will put the needs of myself and my/our children above her own--because this will be returned to her. I am looking for someone who is happy, eternally optimistic, and supportive that I can share my life with. I am looking for someone who KNOWS that they are in a place to be completely honest and open with me, and that are seeking a partner that they can rely and trust completely. As most women on this dating site, I am looking for my best friend, but not only that, I am looking for my best friend that understands how absolutely crucial intimacy (not just the physical, but that is definitely important as well) and constant open and honest communication is to a marriage!
Furthermore, let's be honest, this is online dating you're judging me off of my pictures and I am judging you off of yours. I am a firm believer that you have to be physically attracted to your spouse...to say otherwise is not just unrealistic, its kind of stupid. No one wants to wake up every morning look beside them and then have to remind themselves that they married this person for their personality, not their looks. Let's be real! I want to be physically, emotionally, and spiritually attracted to my future spouse...don't you?!?
I know to some this might be a little heavy or brutal, but I have myself and my children to look out for so...I hope you understand. If you think that I'm the type of guy you're looking for and you are what I described above, I would love to hear from you and get to know you better!