I only came back here after a long time away for one reason. I used to love this site back in the days when I was still freshly learning how to cope with my divorce. I didn't really use this site for dating purposes so much as for the forums and the close friends I had made back then. It was just the therapy I needed at that critical phase of my life.
Now I have outgrown this site, and the forums just don't feel the same without all the familiar faces and personalities that I was used to back then. I came back to retrieve all the messages of correspondences I had with a certain really good friend who by far has made the most impact on my life, out of all the forumites I met here. I just needed to remember all the things that we shared together and realize just exactly how important she really is to me, especially after finally meeting in person last month for the first time since we met in the forums about seven years ago.
I wish you well in finding what you are looking for on this site, and sorry for wasting anyone's time by checking my profile.