My name is Ben. I've been a widower now for over 3 years now. I am a lucky dad to two boys who are 7 and 4 and absolutely adorable. All of the men in my house are a wee bit heart broken after losing that special woman in our lives, so we are here to start trying to find another dynamite gal. I say we cause my boys tend to look over my shoulder when I'm on here and tell me to what to write sometimes. But what I'm looking for is a lady who has some dreams and goals beyond being a great mother. Someone who enjoys life's finer things but also isn't afraid to get dirty and roll her sleeves up from time to time. I'm not gonna lie, I would prefer a widow who is sealed to her husband already. At the same time I'm open to divorced or never married women too cause who ever the Lord sends my ways and tells me she is the girl for me is gonna be loved beyond her wildest dreams.
I like getting out into the world and seeing what is there. I love to walk along the ocean and am trying to instill of love of the water in my sons. I enjoy going up in to the mountains and exploring the peaks to find breath taking views. I enjoying riding around on my motorcycle and just pulling over when I find some cool little place to eat or just check out the view. But most of the time my boys occupy my time and I love to do things with them. Sharing a page in coloring book with them is always a highlight in my day. I like wrestling and tickling them on the floor. I really enjoy cooking and eating. I love having friends over to try some new recipe or something.
I hope this little bit sparks your interest and finds you writing me a little message so we can start getting to know each other.