I want to have the most beautiful relationship in an eternal marriage. I believe this is possible when both partners are fully dedicated to the Lord, His church, and His plan of happiness.
I know that I need to do my part to have an eternal marriage, and I am only interested in a person who wants to work on this for himself, as well. I believe this includes personal spiritual and daily preparation, and then spending time with one's spouse and family in studying (and living) the Gospel together.
I desire to marry someone who loves the Gospel equally or more than me, and is fully committed to marry for eternity - to enter the temple worthily, because of many years of living a truly virtuous life and is committed to that no matter what; someone who loves others and desires to serve them in the capacity that the Lord would want - His family, His neighbors, His Ward Family, Strangers, etc.; someone who seeks to have balance in his life in living The Family Proclamation, and who follows the prophet in every manner of living.
I mention "years" of living a certain lifestyle, because although I believe in reconciliation, I also know the impact of keeping the commandments in [your] youth (Alma 35:37), and how that influences the choices one makes toward personal worthiness and personal preparation.
I do not regret saying that I prefer to be very careful with what music I listen to and what movies I watch. (I always have been that way.) I hope that my future husband feels the same way. To me, what we watch and put into our minds only strengthens our Spirit. In fact, with the proper perspective, we are able to watch where we spend our time. Therefore, I raise my children in the same way, and I guard the time they have for any computer games, (although I do not like computer games). I need this person to love my boys as if they were his own. They need a good father in their life. Fortunately they have a grandfather as a good father figure but I would love to be married, to love and be loved as is intended for families. I know that I am loving to all other children I am to help look after.
There is great purpose in marriage - not just for intimacy.
It is difficult to gain a relationship online, but it can serve as a purpose to meet someone. Then at the same time, a person can be dishonest, or a "fake" as I've heard someone put it that way. Are you the type to message only if someone messages you first? I look for the attributes mentioned above. These are the most important characteristics, not so much how you dress, the car you drive, etc. It seems that the person who would want to marry me is interested in the same qualities, as well as believing that proper courtship is necessary and should be timely. In other words, this person is not living the life but fully seeking his eternal companion, as a mission president would say to his missionaries when they are to go home, and he would seek after her for all the right reasons.