Did your heart skip a beat just now? (as mine did!) (**v**) Scammers, STOP! DON'T waste UR time on me! Real? No local fella? Be kind ~ But be real. I am, but I've only a widow's mite~so ... a call would be nice if you are near SLC & are close to what I've descr. below. Or don't you want a woman to know what she wants?
Tho' best we be 'buds' 1st (**v**) ~ didn't you feel a stirring when our eyes met? ... & didn't the earth start to shimmer? How do we begin (Let's be real so the magical discovery process lasts for eternity!)
... begin as friends? Temple worthy goals only, still with many options avail. (**v**) to share understanding, support, tenderness, life's ups & downs ~ to be there ~ through joy & sorrow. (Age ~55+~ & proportion appropriate, for poss. marriage, w/passion, & near to meet in person, please!)
Youngin's ~ a "widow's mite" means I'm NOT a "sugar mama!" Definitely, you must be older than my children!
Yes, being close in proximity as travel is not in MY budget & nearness is vital to getting acquainted ~ NO, long distance is NOT conducive to courtship. Let's be practical as well as romantic ~ (Been there, done that) ~ NO long distance romance! Travel can be costly, & I live on a widow's mite, so please be in my area ~ near SLC.
Proportion ~ absolutely important. I know what works for me & what does not. Men have their preferences. So do women. Please accept it. (We are children of God also.) Absolutely, you must already be active in the gospel & get yourself to meetings without prodding ~ if not, too easily this can be used for manipulation, & I won't allow myself to be in that situation. I am only interested in one who shares the joy of the gospel, nothing less ~
Note: Be positive & do not label others as "negative" ~ THAT is negative.
I enjoy music, movies, theater, dancing ~ hold me close to music? (My 2nd favorite workout), (**v**) good dining, conversation, uplifting & faith promoting experiences, meeting new people, walks, travel with a loved one. I believe in unconditional love for one's friends, being nonjudgmental, patriotic, standing for right, tact, kindness, being a good neighbor, sharing the gospel by example & making friends, & charity.
I've loved the outdoors: camping, fishing, even hunting, but I'm more a "comforts" gal now, after having been thrown by mules in the wilds of BC, Canada, & I've had to modify a bit. Do you see "celestially?" Some of us are not perfect in face & body, but we strive to be beautiful in thought & deed. "Fit" is a relative term. Consider something alternative to being "jock-strapped." "Celestially fit?"
I love animals, & feel that all of Father's creatures were endowed with certain traits & instincts by HIM & for good reason which can teach us much about ourselves, as we have much to learn. I've learned to love many breeds, & feel grateful for these experiences.
(However, I am especially fond of cuddly critters, (kitties, birdies, mules.)
I'm reserved, quiet. Don't assume. If something I say here offends you, please consider asking me about it ~ it may be a misunderstanding ~ I wish all to have joy & an appropriate match! Someone right for each of us ... so to save time & resources, be fair, don't judge prematurely ~ If you have questions, ask!
IS there a sweet, good man, my best friend, here, who is not afraid to talk to me? »~(¨`·.·´¨)~»
I seek a friend who is not too timid to ask a girl out. (As the man I'd be interested in won't want me to chase him, that's how it is.) I won't chase YOU!
I'm plain & unpretentious ~ very real (I do my own hair, & it is its natural color ~ & the photos are recent.) I'm not interested in cyber love ~ there is no such thing as online dating ~ it's only for "introductions" (for LDS singles with LDS standards) ~ if you are addicted to chatting online, I am(/span) not interested.
I seek a celestial & mortal partner ~ age & height appropriate for me, but youthful, near Salt Lake City, also temple worthy / goal oriented, one with multiple interests & pursuits in learning, as well as spiritual, ultimately, one love, faithful to gospel principles ~ teachable, humble & funny ~ as I strive to be. »~(¨`·.·´¨)~»
Original music & art, & more!
Before "mu64harts," I was, "pmhartslc," but you can call me, Pamela, or p m ~ or you can just call. Do try! Joy for the one who makes the effort! If you have questions, please call me, if local. We can talk about meeting in person. »~(¨`·.·´¨)~»
Good luck! Be blessed, Au Revoir ~ Bisous! Merci!
Pamela, formerly of the 2 of harts, a performing duo, no longer ~ But I'd love to harmonize with you ~ do you sing and/or play an instrument?
pmh, Salt Lake City
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