I am very laid back 98% of the time and try not to get upset because it doesn't make things better. I am a happy person and like being around happy people. I have four wonderful kids that stay with me three weekends a month. I am working on getting back in shape for me, for my kids, and for you so give me some time on that one. I am an open book for the most part so ask me anything you want. I believe that a first date is for fun and I'm willing to give it a shot if you are. After that we will see where it goes because I don't want a second divorce. I want to date until I find the one that I want to be with forever and the one who wants to be with me forever. Dating is for fun, marriage should be forever.