I want a girlfriend, but want to go on a lot of dates with a girl before moving into a relationship. I don't want to request 2nd/3rd/4th dates and have my intentions over analyzed. I hope that's not too much to ask.
I want to meet girls that want to start with a clean slate. I don't want to go on dates with girls whose minds are set on one other specific guy. I accept that girls (and guys) will date around to get to know different people when single, but I want a fair chance. I don't want to date girls who are interested in a missionary, a guy from back home, an ex, a guy they're on-and-off with, a guy who doesn't like her but she wishes he did, or anything like that. I don't want to go on a date with a girl who won't give me a real chance but needs a one-time self-esteem boost. Also, I WILL NOT go on a date with girls I'm not attracted to. If a girl isn't attracted to me, I prefer she tells me that straightforward so that we both move on. No harm done.
I want to be around girls with whom I can be myself. If I ask you on a date then please know that I want you to be the normal you, not the "you that only comes out of your closet for dates" you...though I do like when a girl dresses up nicely for a date and I'll also do the same ;) You don't have to put on a show in which balloons fall from the sky for me, I just want to spend time together and enjoy each other's company. I'm easily entertained. Let's go do something you like to do first and go from there!
I graduated BYU and work a full time marketing job. I love it! But I'm not on-campus surrounded as closely by many beautiful, dateable women anymore, so online dating as an option it is! I look forward to meeting you :) Please don't be offended if I send you a "flirt" instead of a longer message in the beginning. It's a quick way to gauge simple interest with a girl I don't yet know.