I have the best job ever: I'm a soccer coach for 6-7yr olds! I also ref and that's alright, but coaching kids totally takes the cake. I graduated BYU in Management/Marketing and had a big marketing job for years. It was ok, but I'm really happy with the job I currently have: I'm paid to have fun and I get to have a direct impact for good in children's lives. I can truly say that I wake up excited to go to work every day :)
Ok, onto the dating stuff. Honestly: I hate dating.
Misunderstanding, discomfort, awkwardness, defensiveness, skepticism, getting burned; all of that bothers me, Sure, I have gone on fun dates but I can't say I've had the time of my life with dating at all. Maybe you can relate? Be honest lol you know you can.
With that said, I really do enjoy spending quality time with women. My biggest desire is to be happy together with a girl. I want a girlfriend and eventually a wife. I'm not here to meet girls that only want to go on one date and then disappear. I'm also not here to meet girls that want a date with me for a "cultural experience." I'm not white like the guys you and your friends usually crush on (I get it, I can't compete with their skin color and your inherent comfort with them) but I want the same good things in a relationship and marriage that they do, so I expect to be seen as a regular guy rather than a short brown one.
I have my taste in girls. It isn't set in stone: If I message you, then I probably find you very atractive :) In that case please know that I will want to take you on a date. If you're as sincere about things as I am then I'm sure it'll be fun.
I'm 5'7". I get it, don't rub it in. I get rejected for it often and it hurts. No it's not funny, it seriously bothers me when girls think that way. Sometimes I change that to 6 feet here when I go a long time without getting responses to my messages. What can I say? I have to do SOMETHING to appear in your search engines :P haha hope to hear back from you soon.