If I message you then you are allowed to reply! I know I'm not tall & white like most guys you usually see in your girl friends' wedding invitations :P lol but don't be scared hun, it's not the end of your romance world simply for talking to me ;)
Oh, and if you do respond, do also include a question of your own. When I get a response without a question it seems like an interview instead of a conversation. Feels like I'm asking things to someone forced to reply and it doesn't seem like we're getting anywhere. I won't judge you on the type of questions you ask, but I like girls that can keep a conversation going. If I don't get a question in return then I'll assume it was a polite response with no further interest in talking.
I'm on this site because I want to meet girls and go on dates with them. I graduated BYU. Dating was difficult for me then and it's even harder now. I'm not around as many women as before. Most times when I do meet women at places or events, they tend to be a lot younger than me. I don't have a problem with an age difference (I'm open to dating 18-27...if she's worth dating then her age won't be a barrier for me), but it hurts me when younger girls find me "too old" and compare me to the other guys around. Some people find that funny, but it's honestly something that really brings my morale down. It's shattered my confidence time and time again and I hate it.....I'm open to dating one of those girls if she isn't immaturely freaked out about my age. I would also love meeting girls closer to my age that I can also be attracted to. I don't meet many girls closer to my age and, quite frankly, when I do meet them I typically haven't met one that I'm interested in. I did have my first girlfriend this summer, a semi-long distance thing. She's a neat girl but it didn't work in the end and that's fine, time to move forward. I don't regret it. If there's interest, I will make the effort to go to you, whether you live close or further away.
I want a girl who is into one or more of these nine things. She can like SOME and hate the others or she can love ALL of them. They're in no particular order so skim away:
Dance: I love dancing! Ballroom, Latin, country swing. Just let me lead you and you're gonna have a blast!
Education: I'm the first college grad in my family so education means a lot to me. I now have a fulfilling business marketing job and I strive to be more understanding of all around me. You don't have to be in business or any "complicated" major. Major in anything you love. Turn your desires into great things, I completely support that, just please value education because not everyone has access to such a great blessing.
Sports/fitness: I play soccer and love most sports. If you like ANY sport then great! If you play soccer then even better and my jaw dropped in awe.
Games: I come from a big board/card game family so I hope you can hold your own.
Classic video games: I don't have much time for video games but, when I do play, I LOVE the classic old Mario games. Play Mario with me and I'll do the girliest of things with you ha you'd seriously make my day!
Languages: I speak fluent English and Spanish. I also speak French and Portuguese though not fluent.
Art/crafts: artsy girls are classy, crafty girls are creative. Both of those get A's in my book.
Music/theater: I'm not very musically/theatrically inclined, but my mom and my sister are singers so I'm used to growing up with musically inclined women. It would be awesome to be with someone like that.
Service: these girls make the best girlfriends and likely the best wives. Find ways to make others happy and I'll do the same for you.
Hope to hear from you soon so please send a reply :) And if I sent you a flirt don't be offended haha I am a real guy. Respond and you'll see for yourself!