Hi, I am Monte from Montana. I have enjoyed my life experiences, but am ready to settle into a new phase of life. I have had a lot of life experience which I believe have taught me empathy and patience. I love to learn, both in life, about people, and in school. I just finished 22nd grade! You know, a lot of people go to school for 10 years, ...
I am a middle child (5th of 11). I generally work better when a million things are happening at once, am more creative in the fluidity. Can lead when necessary, and can yield when necessary. I am confident in my abilities, but also feel it is equally important to invest in the potential of others. I am generous (water mentality --Aries, Water Ox-- that things flow downhill) with my time and money, for better or worse.
I am looking for someone who has experienced the ups and downs of life, and found internal peace and comfort from the process -- you know "simplicity on the other side of complexity" -- someone who can appreciate my need to be intimate at times, and independent at other times. Someone who is fun-loving, smart, confident, charming, beautiful, playful, even coy. Someone who is mature, emotionally stable, has a positive outlook on life, and takes care of herself.
Below is a summary from some other website regarding my personality (or lack thereof):
Agreeableness: Taking care of others (understanding, selfless, gullible, unquestioning, gentle, indulgent, humane, kindhearted)
Modesty: "All in" when my heart is invested
Generosity: What's mine is yours (Nibley's abundance idea)
Social Awareness: Capable when I want (skill does not imply preference)
Openness: Very Curious (imaginative, creative, intellectual, adventurous, unconventional, artistic, progressive, daring, inspired)
Information Processing: Quad-core with lots of RAM
Inquisitive: Intense which can become too much
Perceptive: Keen when I am on my game, Clueless otherwise
Emotional Stability: Very Responsive (insightful, sensitive, self-conscious, emotional, perceptive) Very INTENSE friendships
Anger Management: Expressing anger is a sign of weakness, uncivil, and uneducated
Emotional Strength: Calm in the eye of the storm, keeping my head while everyone about me are losing their minds, simplicity on the other side of complexity
Ease with Others: Generally trusting, unless trigger launches guardedness
Conscientiousness: Flexible (intuitive, perceptive, natural, somewhat disorganized, unpredictable at times, spontaneous)
Efficiency: Ability to get a lot done in a fluid, creative, dynamic environment
Leader: When others need me to lead/support, I am ready and able
Planner: Loose structure to allow for creativity
Extraversion: Sometimes outgoing, sometimes reserved (moderate, amiable, laid-back, temperate, relaxed, poised, civil, uncommitted, pleasant)
Adventure: Follower and observer at social scenes unless circumstances require otherwise
Words: Searching for a compliment first, and foremost, holding back critical or negative thoughts
Take Charge: Can lead, can follow a competent leader, depends on circumstances (won't let anyone take control over me - strong belief in the gift of agency)