anyone want to get married and run off to Puerto Rico with me for a year??? LOL!!! well, i'm leaving July 7 so my daughter can have a 'foreign exchange student' experience... wish us luck! because of that, i'm opening up my love search nationwide. i figure if i'm gonna be bouncing around the hemisphere i might as well end up bouncing where i find my true love. right? =)
hi! my name is Mat. yes, just one T. it's 25% lighter and easier to pronounce that way. hahaha! i am in my prime, right now!!! my humor is seriously ready for open mic night, i still ride my skateboard, i'm making money, have a strong testimony... dude, seriously, bring it!
i consider myself an intelligent and spiritually inclined normal guy next door. i go to church always, spend a lot of time with my youngest daughter (older kids are married and moved away), and like doing and learning kewl things. i like to think of myself as being tough as nails and having a heart of gold. yes, that is probably a bit of a stretch, but it is my goal to be remembered that way.
i'm looking for THE ONE. i know that sounds kinda dumb, but dangit, i think that there is someone for everyone. the trick is to find that person. for me, that person is intelligent (educated), motherly (for my daughter, not me), a professional, a faithful church goer, an adventurer, and a great communicator... oh, and pretty... and a little dangerous. =)
i've been accused of being a great communicator, and i am often too danged honest for my own good. i'm also quite the comedian as i like to keep the people around me smiling and on their toes. but that doesn't mean that i cannot be serious.
i like music, movies, anything automotive/motorcycle related, being active, and some sports. i dislike tv, laying out at the beach, working out, and disorganization. i prefer kids to pets, politics to pop culture, and talking things out to yelling out frustrations. i hate being lied to, specially those stupid white lies. i also hate liberals, but many of friends are so i bite my tongue. hahaha!
my life is in order. the bills get paid on time, my credit is good, i don't have credit card debt, my house is clean and tidy... what else? i've conquered many obstacles and foes in my life and have the battle scars to prove it. i'm on more or less friendly terms with every significant other and former girlfriend all the way back to high school... yes, there was some apologizing necessary on my part, but i now count them as friends.
i've decided that every year i want to do/experience X amount of things that make life fun like concerts, car shows, road trips, camping, etc. so part of my future plans will include writing these items into a yearly budget and once a month or so going and doing one or two of them. it's not enough to try and capture these experiences at random... so there's that, pre-planned fun. can you get any more spontaneous than that??? LOL!
what else can i say? i'd really rather get to know someone over a smoothie than trying to strike up a conversation via email/text message, but given that my search has gone nationwide i'll do my best. just know that my personality is better observed in person than through a computer monitor.
last thing: yes, i know the misspellings in the above.
don't be shy, and have a great day!!!