Lost in Paradise, Thats me, After 4 years and traveling all over the country to find a place to settle in and begin a new life, we moved from Utah to Florida. My sweetheart was suddenly and tragically taken from me just as our lives were beginning to take shape here. Its been 4 years now and I'm starting to emerge, kinda lookin for someone I can relate to a little bit.

In the past, I've worked as and been involved in a number of different careers. I've worn a lot of hats and life has been nothing short of one big adventure after another.

I was previously divorced, and have 7 great kids, all grown now, well, 18 and up is what I mean. lol. I guess what I'm saying is I've had a lot of experience with life, and its all been good except this last part.

Now I'm alone, my closest family is 2000 mi. away and I dont want to go back to Utah. I'd like to find someone I can relate to and see what happens. I'm a giver by nature and thrive on feeling wanted.

If you're lookin at this, understand I'm alone because I'm picky, not desperate. My wife was young, and beautiful, and She spoiled me by teaching me that if you love someone, You need to do things to prove it to them. Just saying "I love you! and not doing anything to prove it is like saying you believe in God and never going to Church.

My prayer for you all is that you find someone here that blesses your life, and even if I never again find what I lost, I'll still go out with a heart full of memories and a smirk on my face.