When I first thought of putting my self out there to find someone that I can be attracted to and make happy, because I’m looking for a true friend, I looked at a lot of profiles to see who was out there. Many of the profiles, including mine at first listed all the fun and adventurous things we like to do, and have done, I realized that it is not about that. It’s truly about finding a good friend that thinks “Marriage isn’t for you”, “ you don’t marry to make yourself happy, you marry to make someone else happy”. Marriage is about the person you married. It’s about a person you love, their wants, their needs, their hopes and their dreams. Selfishness demands “what’s in it for me?” while Love asks, “what can I give?” No true relationship of love is for you. Love is about the person you love. And paradoxically the more you truly love that person the more love you’ll receive. Not just from me, but from my family, my friends and others. Truly, love and marriage isn’t for you, it’s for others. (br /)If you understand my profile and would like to be my friend let me know. I’m truly looking for a best friend who understands what “true love” is and that loves the Savior and honors his priesthood to make our eternal friendship work.