Hi I to am a little intimidated, like most when it comes to these dating sights.my girls and some friends said I need to just put myself out there! I had, and still don't know if I really do know just how to put myself out there! I really enjoy being with people and have really met some great new friends.like I said I needed to get off this sight for a while and re look at my life and I want to be honest up front even more because I am being judged by my past, and people don't understand there are 2 sides to a story! No I am not proud of some of my actions and yes they got me in trouble, but if I had to to protect my family or a friend I would do it again in a heart beat! I used to teach martial arts to help protect law enforcement, attorneys, judges, etc. and after the experience's I went through during my 2 divorces I don't really know at this point if I would protect or turn my back, I know that sounds harsh! I moved out of the area to start a new life, some people judge me for who I am and others for what they read! You are welcome to ask then decide for yourself ! I am not proud of anything but I used to have a super great reputation and am trying to gain it back! I can only do so much! I am an active LDS person , I try to live up to my religion,yes sometimes I slip, but I still believe in the gospel! I still would love to meet a wonderful lady, friend, and companion one day! I have dated and met some really sweet and wonderful new friends! But I want to settle down and put the past couple years behind me and just move forward, I know we all have a past and it wasn't great or we wouldn't be hear on this dating sight playing games just to get dates, so for me the passed is over and nothing can change it , it's gone and to late! Get by it, if you are not a forgiving or understanding person and if you are not looking for something more concrete! The move on and good luck finding that perfect person , so far there has only been one that every lived on this earth , I don't care what religion you are!