The profile name is an inside joke, so dont take it too literally! haha

So.... I guess I am here for the same reason everyone else is thats here...with a busy life, running a business, 2 children, where else do you go to meet someone? Anyways...Im giving this a shot, I'm holdin on tight...

Those that know would say that I am a passionate, spunky, funny girl with a good heart. I am a people person, love my children/family/friends very deeply, and know how to make someone feel loved. When you have my heart, you have it for good. I love Sports, LOVE my music, and most would say I have a slight obsession with Purple.....sparkles make me smile, and I love to laugh. I'm looking for a guy who likes to play but can keep it real. But, I'm not here to "play", ya know what I mean? I'm looking for an intelligent, funny , patient, spiritual, responsible and loyal man, who makes me feel safe, cherished and respected . I like a man who will surprise me every now and then. A man who will support my opinions and feelings, yet still tell me if I'm wrong and will want me to do the same for him. Someone whom I can get lost in connected conversation with, just as easily as we can share one of those moments of comfortable silence in each others arms. I am independent but FAR from being a feminist. I still love and believe in chivalry. Sarcasm is a spice of life, so bring it on. I want to share both our passions, some of mine, some of yours, some new ones we find together. But let's get really real, most guys don't even get this far into a profile, so let's just talk....btw I'm on a ipad most of the time, I have no idea if the chat works on it or not, I guess we will see....