I see so many profiles that sound like they have EVERYTHING together. I have to say I am not one of those. I have been very blessed but I am still trying to wrap my head around what has happened to me and my family. I have been through a lot in my life and because of that I am who I am, good and bad. I feel like I am a good person and yet I am still being tested. I guess I am a slow learner.

I am a single father of three teenage girls. They make my life extremely busy, amazing and especially fulfilling. I also have older children out of the house. My children mean everything to me and have become my total focus.

So....what do you say in a greeting that sounds good enough for someone to be interested and yet honest enough for them to remember we all have faults. I am not sure that is possible in an online greeting, but here are some highlights. My exercise program is practicing softball with my girls and lots of hard work. My way of winding down is anything from watching a game or reality TV to playing a game with my girls. I cook, clean, wash the dishes and laundry and marvel at all single parents who do all this alone. It has been a true test of my strength and patience.

I am looking for a friend and hoping I might find that someone to share my life with. Someone I can finally trust. Someone I can believe in. Someone that looks forward to seeing me at the end of the day as much as I look forward to seeing her. Someone I can talk to all night. Someone that wants to go on new adventures with me. Someone that will do things with me because I like to do them, just as I would do things with them just because they like to do them. I am not looking for someone perfect, they don't exist. I am looking for someone that knows everything about me and still loves me. That would be perfect for me.

I have a testimony of the gospel, although it has been tested a great deal the last few years. I do know the only way for true happiness for me and my family is through the gospel and will continue to strive to be a better father and person every day.