“If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you wont give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. ... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.” -BOB MARLEY
I'm a little freaked out about online dating because of the scams in the news. But oh well,....... here I am. I guess I'm just going to take a big risk here because "I just haven't met YOU yet"
For starters, I prefer men between 30 and 43 years old. But if you really have the case of the yellow fever, you're more than welcome to get to know me:-)
I'm an outgoing city girl who loves people & cultures. I work as a Registered Nurse Consultant traveling So Cal so it gives me an opportunity to serve others which brings me total satisfaction in my secular & my spiritual life.
Here's what I'm MAJORLY looking for in a Man:
HONESTY- I mean, genuine honesty. "One who can hurt you with the truth but not comfort you with a lie". Makes sense right?
HUMOR- I am pretty funny, I crack myself up a lot. I need somebody who can appreciate this & hopefully do the same to me.
DECISIVENESS- Someone who knows exactly what he wants in his life and has set goals & knows his priorities. Biggest turn off: Flakes.
CHEMISTRY- I believe in Chemical Romance. It's like an electricity that you just can't deny. When it overcomes me, I'm a slave to it ...A good personal hygiene adds to that chemistry for me. My pheromones are sensitive to this.
EMOTIONAL MATURITY- A man that can talk about feelings and is responsible for his behavior is a plus! Have you seen the Notebook? Yeah, the "Noah kind" does exist but where art thou?
EQUAL YOKING- I have a strong affinity with men who shares the same spiritual goals and perspectives with me. Do you like standing in Holy places?
Now this is where I start selling myself and this is uncomfortable but it's a must do: Here we go!
“What we love determines what we seek. What we seek determines what we think and do. What we think and do determines who we are — and who we will become.”
-Dieter F. Uchtdorf
I grew up in the church and I can't imagine myself not living the gospel . Sure I am flawed like everybody else but I try a little better everyday. Like President Hinckley said" You have not failed till you quit trying"
I live in LALA Land so I enjoy food trips, concerts, musicals, plays, live show tapings, museum, galleries, improvs, etc... etc... and yelping...... (Yes! Yelping) I love my Iphone as well and anything Apple ! Road trips are fun.... I like basketball, bowling & volleyball.
I am as domesticated as you can get. I can cook gourmet and bake serious pastries depending if I make it home from LA traffic...... Moreover, I can make a HOUSE a HOME,...sometimes, even smelling like fresh baked cookies. On a given day, I can be on my knees scrubbing a dirty toilet and then I can also clean up nicely and attend a gallery opening escorting you in my cocktail dress & high heels shoes that night..... Seriously:-)
I LOVE KIDS!!!!...... (I'll leave that just like that).
I can't live without music.... I drive a ton so it is a big chunk of my life...Any genre, Any decade, I love my playlist. I play the guitar too. And oh by the way, I am a ballroom/ latin dancer but please don't get intimidated. Opposites can still attract right? If not, I can still accept you even if country 2 step is all you know :-)
Now you may ask If I like the outdoors........Hmmm,... I do like it for as long as I take Claritin. No, I'm not high maintenance, .... I am just a yellow skin girl highly allergic to oak trees and pollen..... And yes, I can get dirty playing rugby!
All you out of state guys, please don't get too intimidated by this CALIFORNIA GIRL! I'm just really a daughter of our Heavenly Father looking for her Heavenly Mate:-).........I can move Mountains ......... Try me!