Sense of humor: If you have one, keep reading. If not, it ain’t gonna work! When it comes to me trying to make people laugh, I cast a wide net, and not all of the things I say are winners, but what the heck, if it makes 'em smile a little, I am all for it.
I am also a confident man who is also caring and nice. (They say nice guys finish last, and I tend to think that women appreciate that.) It’s hard for me to tell all the things that I like or dislike in a paragraph, but I’ll try. First, I love my two kids! I am such a push over as a dad because I'll do just about anything for them (and that includes going to McDonalds). I like to have fun, but I also enjoy relaxing. It’s a nice way to balance my high stress job of being a prosecuting attorney.
I play the guitar. Playing cover songs with some of my friends is fun, but I really enjoy writing songs. I can tell when I am in a fun relationship because the creativity flows, and I am able to write songs much more easily. I also like creative writing, and started a blog at ThePointOfQ.com. It allows me to try to be funny, vent, share my opinions on things, etc.
I have had experiences in life that have given me insights into my own sense of spirituality, but I am always learning and I try to keep an open mind. I am by no means perfect, but I try to be a good guy. Yes, my church activity level is set on the lower end of the scale. I was married to someone who was not a member, and to “keep the peace” I did not attend church. My testimony is there, and I am trying to get back into the swing of things. However, I have several things to overcome. Most of it will require simply swallowing my pride, getting over hurt feelings, and ignoring that feeling that as a single man, I feel out of place in a family ward, etc. If anything, I have a better understanding of why it’s not good for “man to be alone” and how the strength of having a “spiritual partner” is really important. Having said that, I do NOT believe that it’s healthy to seek a relationship simple because someone needs saving. If you have questions, I am more than happy to talk about it further.
Lastly, if you are young, and you are reading this because you saw that I checked out your profile, all I can say is this: “I saw your picture, probably thought you were cute, and I decided to take a look. It’s what guys do regardless of our age. We know we don’t have a shot, but it doesn’t mean we can’t look. So don’t worry, I’m not gonna hound you!”