Hi! I'm Gillian. I am a 28 year old college graduate, and am just looking for a kind Mormon guy to build my life with. I'm going to be honest, I am just getting out of a 6 year marriage (not a temple marriage). I got married in college to a man with a drastically different set of morals than my own, and let's just say, I now very much understand the importance of marrying within the church. Though I have had my fair share of heartbreak, I like to think of myself as upbeat. I play guitar, paint, kayak, and love the outdoors! I'm a health food loving, geeky-board game kind of girl (I'm talking games like munchkin and pandemic etc), and most importantly, I have a very strong testimony.
What kind of guy am I looking for? Honestly, I am looking for a man that is comfortable being silly, has a solid testimony, is gentle, and smiles often. Really, I want a sweet geek. I'm a happy person and truly need to be around happy people, or at least I'd prefer not to be around bitter or angry people. Most especially, I need a guy that can be selfless, or at least selfless enough to help build a stable, nurturing family.
I think of myself as an Empath. I care deeply for others, and feel their pain. Thus, being around stress cases, causes me stress. I don't need a perfect someone, just a smiley, compassionate someone.
I want a guy that knows to hold me tight when I'm sad, but won't be the source of that sadness (within reason obvs).
I want to have children someday, and I want to know the man in my life will be an affectionate husband and father. I'm a homebody at times, and a traveling spirit at other times, so I need a man who likes being home at night for some comfy family snuggles, but also isn't afraid to go on a spontaneous adventure with me, if the occasion so calls for it.
I am hyper-loyal to those I love, and am looking for the same.
I know this seems like a lot, but I have a feeling there is a good mormon man out there for me, and so I figure I should give this a shot. I'm very kind, so feel free to write me. I promise I will respond. I'm not looking for a supermodel, I'm looking for a gentle, trustworthy companion, so if you feel intimidated or like you are not "handsome" enough, then stop being ridiculous and write me anyway. If nothing else, I'm even just happy to make some friends on here. Hope to hear from you soon! -Gillybean :)