I'm back. I was on hiatus for over a year. Maybe I'm ready for you now!
I want to fight the Fu. How about you?
If you don't like rock & roll get lost! I don't look or act my age! If you act like an old fuddyduddy go away! READ MY PROFILE - YOU WILL BE QUIZZED LATER!
When I marry you, I won’t care where I live, as long as it’s with someone I love and who loves me. I make friends easily. I've mostly lived in NYC in a high-rise. This past year there have been huge changes in my life: breakup of a 10 year relationship (yay), joining the church (yay), new job (yay), new apartment (yuck) and more. I don't care where I live because I am so happy in my life now.... without my former negative baggage. lol. When I marry you, and yes, I am honestly looking for marriage, I will expect you to be the “man” in the relationship. And yes…that includes killing spiders. Bugs are my Room 101. I will not be your “mommy” but a partner in building a wonderful, fulfilling, and happy life.
I am intelligent, kind, witty, handy, personable, and usually good-looking. I am well-spoken. If you are a Renaissance man, here I am, your Renaissance woman. I am fiercely loyal and will do anything for the people I care about, and try to be kind to those I don’t care about also. I am not wishy-washy, but will be mush in your hands. I missed the joy of having a family, but would love to be a part of your family. I am affectionate, and have been affection-starved for many years. It’s sad. I’m looking for someone who is affectionate and appreciative of all that I have to offer. I insist on more hands-on time with me than with your computer:-))
I will not settle for anyone who does not share my VALUES. That did not work for me in the past, and I will not enter into what will be my final relationship on earth with one with whom I must argue, or defend my values. We must be on the same page about religion, politics, and family and friends. I am conservative. very.
I have many interests both trivial and serious, outdoorsy and cultural, costly and fancy free. I want to share them with you. I don’t want to drag you kicking and screaming to the opera or a cultural event, or to do charity work. I want to share your interests also, and you’ll only have to kidnap me to sleep in a tent on the hard ground. I’m too old for that. Do you have a tuxedo and hiking boots and are you comfortable in either? Did I scare you away yet? If so, good. If not, even better.
I love to travel to adventurous destinations, big cities, and lazy places. Wish list includes the Galapagos, Angkor Wat, and the Great Wall. Dream is to fight the Fu. I love to go to London for the theatre and sleep late in a fab hotel, shop at Harvey Nicks, and eat at Hakkasan. I love to drive around the US National Parks in a convertible. I'm itchin to get back into snow skiing again...and float in some fresh powder with one I love. If you're a good skier, you're a good dancer etc.... you know what I mean.
P.S., Where I go, Cypher goes. Cypher is my tuxedo cat who thinks he is a dog. He has huge paws and loves to roll over. He follows me around everywhere, plays fetch, gives me high-fives, and prays with me. I rescued him off the street on a Friday the 13th! I would love to have a dog. My faves are PBGV's and Rotties.
Hey, guys: please don't message me and ask me to compromise on what's important to me. By VALUES, I mean religion, politics, friends and family,and commitment to each other. If you are not 100% on board with your commitment to the Church, please move on to the next lady. I believe that whatever you put in front of God, you will lose. By INTERESTS, I mean things you like to spend spare time on, such as hiking, biking, skiing, reading, attending theatre or concerts, playing backgammon, watching sports, etc. It would be great if you are able to spell. I have little patience for adults who hid behind the door in grammar school. Hope you know the difference between your and you're. and lay and lie. I'm scary, aren't I? TTFN