I have been rediscovering myself and my life after an abrupt end to my 20 year marriage. I have 2 boys that mean the world to me. I love the gospel, have served faithfully as an EQP and as 1st and 2nd counselor for the last 5 years in a bishopric, but also enjoy playing pool with co-workers and friends at a local bar..(no, I don't drink... never have). I enjoy the rain, thunder, & lightning. I love wind storms. I absolutely love spending time with someone special and leaving notes and poetry when least expected:) I'm 6'3. big build. Have been overweight most of my life, but have lost 78 pounds in the last 6 months and continue to go to the gym every week day...it has become a passion:) I have blond hair, blue eyes, and have worn a go-tee beard for the past 10 years to look a bit older and more serious when I go to court for my job. Clean shaved, I look like I'm a push-over..lol. Stable job for the past 20 years. Love to joke around, laugh...(laughing has gotten me through some really hard times).. Love to walk, love to listen to music (all kinds), love to listen to and write poetry, family is important to me. Love driving, love dining out, love home cooked meals also and talking about almost anything, love swimming, boating, camping, motor cycles, atv's. I have found that I am a fix-it guy. I have (too much) empathy..lol. I am always trying to help people if I have the ability.