I had been single for 16 years and had really given up hope of ever finding a good guy. He had been recently widowed and was just entering the LDS singles scene. We became friends through the forum and the chat room. He was actually cyber-dating someone else, and we started IMing about some chat room business. Soon we were chatting for hours and then talking on the phone afterward. The big problem - he lived in Arizona and I lived in Oregon. So we set a date and bought me a plane ticket. But the time went too slowly! Before I even got down there for a visit, he proposed to me in the chat room, in front of all our LDSSO friends.

The date came, I flew to AZ, and never went back. Our children organized the wedding, and I am now no longer Scotlight, but Mrs. ldssingledad. Thanks - without this site, I'd have never met him!