Over the course of three years, I wrote letters to dozens of women on the LDS Singles website. Some never answered. Some answered once or twice. A few wrote back and forth for several weeks. And I had opportunity to meet several others. Like many of you, I was frustrated. Then, in late July 2004, while on a military business trip to England, I wrote Nightengalesong. After just a few short weeks of writing, I began calling her daily from Kosovo (in the Balkans). I was allowed one leave during my tour of duty and I took it to spend Thanksgiving with her. I finally left Kosovo in April 2005. On July 9, 2005, we were married in the New York City Temple.

Be patient. He or She is out there.